As I write this, DaLee is painting just “a couple of more things” in what is to become Bretney and Avery’s first apartment. Between our regular schedule, the weather, and trying to take care of wedding things, the apartment is not quite finished. As much as I watch all those home improvement shows, you’d think I’d be going like gangbusters! It’s not for lack of “want to” but those guys on TV get done in 30 minutes what is has taken us a couple of months to do, and we’re still not done. Oh well. First apartments are a special place no matter what they are.
We are in the home stretch, and stretch is a good word for it! With the continuous planning and abundance of little details, we will be stretched to our maximum! I’m thankful for all the work that has been done so far. I’m thankful for all the family and friends that have offered and given help! I’m so thankful for all our family, friends, and community of faith who have showered Bretney and Avery with love, presents, and prayer.
Many of you know that once DaLee and I started “talking seriously,” we were overwhelmed at the prospect, though DaLee’s feet were a little “colder” than mine! Seven years later, we took the plunge but even with that time of growth and maturity, there were still things we didn’t know or know to anticipate.
I think that’s my biggest fear for them. There is so much to be ready for when getting married. How could I ever show them, teach them, tell them enough to adequately prepare them? You know what? I can’t. This is where my faith in God comes in. I must release them to Him and pray His watch care and protection over them. There will be some bumps in the road along the way. They will make some poor choices. God’s love, mercy, and grace however will carry them through. Sometimes God will use me and DaLee to help. Sometimes He won’t. Whatever happens, I need to – I must – trust in almighty God. If He can’t do it, nobody can! When you see me next week, I’ll be a Father – in – Law. I wonder if I’ll look any different?
Love ya,
Bret
